OUR Journal

A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken. 

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Giving head like you mean it

Open communication before giving head or any sexual experience can be a game-changer, giving your nervous system the opportunity to relax and feel safe. Discussing...

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Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
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Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?

Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.

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Why modern attachment feels more like obsession
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Why modern attachment feels more like obsession

The psychological phenomenon often confused for an intensely passionate love story.

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What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic
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What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic

Queer sex is not linear, it's a mutual exploration of the erotic. Foreplay, afterplay, after sex, and everything in between helps us connect deeper.

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