OUR Journal

A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in arts, culture, relationships, science and history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, history learned, advice spoken. 

Entries

My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal
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My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal

When you think you should be aroused versus when you actually are can vary.

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My Accidentally Celibate Summer
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My Accidentally Celibate Summer

Like does my summer even qualify as brat if I didn’t get laid?

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How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina
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How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina

Lana Del Rey once said: “my pussy tastes likePepsi Cola,” and I said, “challenge accepted.”

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Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
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Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?

Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.

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