OUR Journal
A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken.
The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?
Humans have always been creatures of ritual, especially in mating. Manipulating our love interests isn’t some trend of the moment; humans have been playing these...
How to Reduce Soreness After Sex Naturally
Learn how aftercare can naturally reduce soreness after sex, soothing sensitive areas and promoting comfort through gentle, restorative practices.
My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal
When you think you should be aroused versus when you actually are can vary.
My Accidentally Celibate Summer
Like does my summer even qualify as brat if I didn’t get laid?
How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina
Lana Del Rey once said: “my pussy tastes likePepsi Cola,” and I said, “challenge accepted.”
Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.
What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic
Queer sex is not linear, it's a mutual exploration of the erotic. Foreplay, afterplay, after sex, and everything in between helps us connect deeper.
