OUR Journal
A glimpse into modern intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken.
Tantric Afterplay: The Energy After You Come Is Sacred
What if the real magic of intimacy isn’t in the climax—but in what comes after?Rooted in the ancient wisdom of Tantra, this piece explores the...
You Faked It. They Believed It. Now What?
Faking orgasms may feel like second nature, but beneath the breathy moans and arched backs lies a deeper pattern of putting someone else’s pleasure above...
I Learned to Stay in the Moment During Sex—and It Changed Everything
Discover how mindfulness can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and enhance connection by bringing you fully into the present during moments of closeness.
My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal
When you think you should be aroused versus when you actually are can vary.
My Accidentally Celibate Summer
Like does my summer even qualify as brat if I didn’t get laid?
How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina
Lana Del Rey once said: “my pussy tastes likePepsi Cola,” and I said, “challenge accepted.”
What Comes After the Big O?
Aftercare is a vital part of intimacy, transforming the moments after the big O into a time for comfort, connection, and care that deepens bonds...
Loving Yourself As An Act Of Rebellion
Why casual sex is rarely ever truly casual. This article explores the hidden emotional layers and lasting impact of 'casual' connections, challenging the notion of...
I brought my partner to an orgy to connect, but had a personal awakening instead
Explore the transformative experience of the 'Sacred Slut' game, where setting boundaries, embracing curiosity, and staying connected to oneself reveal the deeper layers of group...
Giving head like you mean it
Open communication before giving head or any sexual experience can be a game-changer, giving your nervous system the opportunity to relax and feel safe. Discussing...
Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.
What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic
Queer sex is not linear, it's a mutual exploration of the erotic. Foreplay, afterplay, after sex, and everything in between helps us connect deeper.