OUR Journal

A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken. 

Why Some Lovers Feel Like Home and Others Feel Like a Mistake
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Why Some Lovers Feel Like Home and Others Feel Like a Mistake

Sex is a biological symphony of hormones, but chemistry defies science. Men crash into sleep, women bond through oxytocin, and attraction remains unpredictable—sometimes fueled by...

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Out of Your Head and Into Your Body
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Out of Your Head and Into Your Body

Intimacy, real intimacy, lives here—in the tension, the teasing, the maddening anticipation we often rush through. It’s not about perfection or performance. It’s in the...

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Cleopatra: Our Eternal Muse of Mind, Body, and Ritual

Cleopatra: Our Eternal Muse of Mind, Body, and Ritual

To know Cleopatra is to understand mastery—a fusion of allure and intellect, where beauty and ritual were tools of both power and presence. Inspired by...

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Moringa: The Miracle Tree

Moringa: The Miracle Tree

Revered for its ability to hydrate and heal, Moringa was a staple in ancient skincare and spiritual practices, embodying the essence of resilience and renewal.

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January 2025 Horoscopes
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January 2025 Horoscopes

There are many ways to ring in a new year, and we like to use these first few weeks to look forward. We collected these...

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From Matching Sweaters to Family Chaos: Your Holiday Playbook
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From Matching Sweaters to Family Chaos: Your Holiday Playbook

A playful guide to navigating the chaos of bringing your partner home for the holidays, with tips on setting boundaries, managing family quirks, and prioritizing...

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I Learned to Stay in the Moment During Sex—and It Changed Everything

I Learned to Stay in the Moment During Sex—and It Changed Everything

Discover how mindfulness can deepen intimacy, heal past trauma, and enhance connection by bringing you fully into the present during moments of closeness.

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aftercare, afterplay oil, intimacy, touch, sensitive skin, irritated skin, hydration, skin care, love, relationships
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Golden Healer: The Power of Calendula

Calendula extract has antifungal, anti-inflammatory, and antibacterial properties beneficial for various skin types due to its soothing and healing power.

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The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?
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The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?

Humans have always been creatures of ritual, especially in mating. Manipulating our love interests isn’t some trend of the moment; humans have been playing these...

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Blue Lotus: Alluring Afterplay
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Blue Lotus: Alluring Afterplay

We explore the mind and body benefits of Blue Lotus Flower, an ancient aphrodisiac in our Afterplay Oil. Like rituals of after care, the bloom...

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Rawdogging The First Date: Intimacy Exposed
dating relationships

Rawdogging The First Date: Intimacy Exposed

What happens when we dive into an intimate relationship without the crutch of alcohol?

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queer, aftercare, after play, soreness, irritation, inflammation, after sex, vagina, penis, anus, hurt, sex, relationships, dating, desire, intimacy, touch, care, skin
aftercare dating sexuality

How to Reduce Soreness After Sex Naturally

Learn how aftercare can naturally reduce soreness after sex, soothing sensitive areas and promoting comfort through gentle, restorative practices.

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afterplay, aftercare, after sex, soreness, inflamation
desire relationships

Your Guide to Aftercare

Explore the essential role of aftercare in sexual wellness, addressing physical comfort and emotional connection with soothing rituals and products like Noén’s Afterplay Oil to...

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My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal
desire sexuality

My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal

When you think you should be aroused versus when you actually are can vary.

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My Accidentally Celibate Summer
sexuality

My Accidentally Celibate Summer

Like does my summer even qualify as brat if I didn’t get laid?

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How to Lose a Person in 10 Days (Without Losing Yourself)
stories

How to Lose a Person in 10 Days (Without Losing Yourself)

We’ve been marinating in the broth of patriarchy, steeped in the notion that love means losing yourself. What gives?

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How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina
sexuality

How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina

Lana Del Rey once said: “my pussy tastes likePepsi Cola,” and I said, “challenge accepted.”

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breakup, relationships, dating, he left me, why can't I let go?, afterplay, aftercare, after sex, is he into me, help, healing, desire, attachment, intimacy
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Clinging To A Breakup I Didn’t See Coming

This article explores the raw journey of navigating unexpected heartbreak, finding healing, and learning to let go.

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