OUR Journal
A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken.
The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?
Humans have always been creatures of ritual, especially in mating. Manipulating our love interests isn’t some trend of the moment; humans have been playing these...
Blue Lotus: Alluring Afterplay
We explore the mind and body benefits of Blue Lotus Flower, an ancient aphrodisiac in our Afterplay Oil. Like rituals of after care, the bloom...
Rawdogging The First Date: Intimacy Exposed
What happens when we dive into an intimate relationship without the crutch of alcohol?
How to Reduce Soreness After Sex Naturally
Learn how aftercare can naturally reduce soreness after sex, soothing sensitive areas and promoting comfort through gentle, restorative practices.
Your Guide to Aftercare
Explore the essential role of aftercare in sexual wellness, addressing physical comfort and emotional connection with soothing rituals and products like Noén’s Afterplay Oil to...
My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal
When you think you should be aroused versus when you actually are can vary.
My Accidentally Celibate Summer
Like does my summer even qualify as brat if I didn’t get laid?
How to Lose a Person in 10 Days (Without Losing Yourself)
We’ve been marinating in the broth of patriarchy, steeped in the notion that love means losing yourself. What gives?
How Lana Del Rey Ruined My Vagina
Lana Del Rey once said: “my pussy tastes likePepsi Cola,” and I said, “challenge accepted.”
Clinging To A Breakup I Didn’t See Coming
This article explores the raw journey of navigating unexpected heartbreak, finding healing, and learning to let go.
What Comes After the Big O?
Aftercare is a vital part of intimacy, transforming the moments after the big O into a time for comfort, connection, and care that deepens bonds...
Loving Yourself As An Act Of Rebellion
Why casual sex is rarely ever truly casual. This article explores the hidden emotional layers and lasting impact of 'casual' connections, challenging the notion of...
I brought my partner to an orgy to connect, but had a personal awakening instead
Explore the transformative experience of the 'Sacred Slut' game, where setting boundaries, embracing curiosity, and staying connected to oneself reveal the deeper layers of group...
Giving head like you mean it
Open communication before giving head or any sexual experience can be a game-changer, giving your nervous system the opportunity to relax and feel safe. Discussing...
Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.
Why modern attachment feels more like obsession
The psychological phenomenon often confused for an intensely passionate love story.
What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic
Queer sex is not linear, it's a mutual exploration of the erotic. Foreplay, afterplay, after sex, and everything in between helps us connect deeper.
