OUR Journal

A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken. 

The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?
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The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?

Humans have always been creatures of ritual, especially in mating. Manipulating our love interests isn’t some trend of the moment; humans have been playing these...

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Blue Lotus: Alluring Afterplay
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Blue Lotus: Alluring Afterplay

We explore the mind and body benefits of Blue Lotus Flower, an ancient aphrodisiac in our Afterplay Oil. Like rituals of after care, the bloom...

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Your Guide to Aftercare

Explore the essential role of aftercare in sexual wellness, addressing physical comfort and emotional connection with soothing rituals and products like Noén’s Afterplay Oil to...

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My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal
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My p**** isn’t listening: understanding arousal

When you think you should be aroused versus when you actually are can vary.

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Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
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Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?

Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.

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What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic
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What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic

Queer sex is not linear, it's a mutual exploration of the erotic. Foreplay, afterplay, after sex, and everything in between helps us connect deeper.

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