OUR Journal

A glimpse into modern intimacy. Writings on intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken. 

January 2025 Horoscopes
relationships

January 2025 Horoscopes

There are many ways to ring in a new year, and we like to use these first few weeks to look forward. We collected these...

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From Matching Sweaters to Family Chaos: Your Holiday Playbook
dating relationships stories

From Matching Sweaters to Family Chaos: Your Holiday Playbook

A playful guide to navigating the chaos of bringing your partner home for the holidays, with tips on setting boundaries, managing family quirks, and prioritizing...

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The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?
desire relationships sexuality

The Art of Playing It Cool: Does ‘Doing It’ Change Everything?

Humans have always been creatures of ritual, especially in mating. Manipulating our love interests isn’t some trend of the moment; humans have been playing these...

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Rawdogging The First Date: Intimacy Exposed
dating relationships

Rawdogging The First Date: Intimacy Exposed

What happens when we dive into an intimate relationship without the crutch of alcohol?

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afterplay, aftercare, after sex, soreness, inflamation
desire relationships

Your Guide to Aftercare

Explore the essential role of aftercare in sexual wellness, addressing physical comfort and emotional connection with soothing rituals and products like Noén’s Afterplay Oil to...

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Why modern attachment feels more like obsession
attachment relationships

Why modern attachment feels more like obsession

The psychological phenomenon often confused for an intensely passionate love story.

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