OUR Journal
A glimpse into modern intimacy in relationships, between friends, among arts, culture, science and in history. A deep dive, a subtle note, a conversation, a story kept, history learned, advice spoken.
Clinging To A Breakup I Didn’t See Coming
This article explores the raw journey of navigating unexpected heartbreak, finding healing, and learning to let go.
What Comes After the Big O?
Aftercare is a vital part of intimacy, transforming the moments after the big O into a time for comfort, connection, and care that deepens bonds...
Loving Yourself As An Act Of Rebellion
Why casual sex is rarely ever truly casual. This article explores the hidden emotional layers and lasting impact of 'casual' connections, challenging the notion of...
I brought my partner to an orgy to connect, but had a personal awakening instead
Explore the transformative experience of the 'Sacred Slut' game, where setting boundaries, embracing curiosity, and staying connected to oneself reveal the deeper layers of group...
Giving head like you mean it
Open communication before giving head or any sexual experience can be a game-changer, giving your nervous system the opportunity to relax and feel safe. Discussing...
Is there something wrong with me if I don’t want sex all the time?
Understanding desire, and why getting turned on isn’t so spontaneous after all.
Why modern attachment feels more like obsession
The psychological phenomenon often confused for an intensely passionate love story.
What Queer Sex taught Me About The Erotic
Queer sex is not linear, it's a mutual exploration of the erotic. Foreplay, afterplay, after sex, and everything in between helps us connect deeper.